Gratitude is indeed crucial, yet another aspect is to integrate fully with our so-called duality and make peace with it. We are perfect as we are and we need to grow. Both are true, focusing on only one side is half true. We are to ascend as humans although our soul has always been perfect; reaching it is just not that easy. In practical life we tend to look at these sides separately: either focusing on more or being grateful in acceptance. For me, the key lies in creating a third entity by merging the other two in life simultaneously. It might be tricky to grasp it mentally but silence and meditation can take us there naturally. The self is in peace when it embodies its round truth. Thank you for your words and I wish you a well-rounded 2020 :)