When it comes to ANYTHING, consent is everything. Without consent it is even hard to talk about abuse and rape as it becomes a matter of victimization as well, the boundaries become very gray. Thank you for your touching article and honesty, your strength in vulnerability is remarkable. As humans we all have to learn to identify our boundaries and express them clearly, to stand up for ourselves. That’s the way to empowerment, to sovereignty, to taking charge of our lives. Beautiful <3